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I tweet, therefore I am
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Collaboration and Communication, Prosperity and Well Being on March 3rd, 2009
A recent article in the Economist discusses the impact of social networking applications on an individual’s circle of intimacy. The article posits that while tools such as Facebook and Twitter might increase the number of people that active networkers interact with, the majority of these exchanges are casual in nature. Most folks have a small core of friends with whom they feel comfortable discussing important matters, and the availability of large numbers of social contacts doesn’t seem to affect that.
Makes sense to me. It takes hard work to maintain true friendships. Even the most comfortable relationships, the ones that seem effortless and timeless, require maintenance by both parties to remain viable. Online social networking tools might help us keep track of a large number of social contacts, but there’s only so much emotional investment capital available.
Still, it’s funny how people are casually sharing increasingly intimate details of their lives with a circle of contacts who are, despite being named a friend on Facebook, effectively strangers. Social networking seems to bring out a bit of the exhibitionist in people. In a comment about Internet voyeurism, Seth Finkelstein insightfully called Twitter “low-level celebrity for the chattering class.”
What embarrasing detail about an acquaintance do you wish you could unlearn?
Prosperity and purpose
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Prosperity and Well Being on February 18th, 2009
Analysing what you do and why you do it is a crucial step to self-actualisation. As I’ve mentioned, the real key to personal prosperity lies in understanding the relationships between your family, society and the business world and integrating them successfully in the pursuit of your ultimate desires. A new book by Roy Spence, Jr., It’s Not What You Sell, It’s What You Stand For: Why Every Extraordinary Business Is Driven by Purpose, takes this concept and applies it to the corporate entity.
Purpose, Roy says, “(Is) your reason for being that goes beyond making money.” It’s a bold statement of the difference you want to make in the world. Having a clear, unequivocal purpose that is ingrained at all levels of the organisation is the key to excelling in good times as well as bad.
Having a clear understanding of the purpose that drives your personal life will help you navigate the turbulent currents that buffet your friends, family and career. It’s hard enough to stay on track as it is, trying to do so without a compass is an invitation to disaster.
Have you read the book? What did you think?
The power of a simple list
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Prosperity and Well Being on February 18th, 2009
One thing I’ve observed is that people who habitually use simple to-do lists are generally more effective than those who don’t. I think that’s probably because a simple list serves as a strong foundation that helps you keep objectives in perspective and forget fewer details, plus it provides a good basis for efficient time management. Generally speaking this tends to make those with lists more organised, more reliable, and more productive.
My dad has made a simple to-do list a part of his life since I have been old enough to notice, and he gets more useful work done than anyone else I know.
I’m not talking about detailed, task-oriented project management here; that’s a discussion for another time. I’m referring to a simple check list of personal tasks.
If you find yourself struggling to keep up or forgetting little things, give list keeping a try. Keep a notepad nearby and don’t be afraid to use it.
Here are a few tips for the effective use of to-do lists:
- Make it a habit. Start each day with a look at the previous day’s list and copy over the things that still need doing.
- Keep lists short. A long, unmanageable list is an invitation to procrastination.
- Be specific. Break tasks up into clear, definitive actions. Doing this avoids ambiguity and helps keep you focused.
- Keep tasks achievable. In addition to the above advice to be specific, setting realistic mileposts reduces frustration. “Boil the ocean” would be a bad entry, for example.
- Prioritise, but be flexible. Use common sense when arranging your tasks. Take advantage of your mood, energy, and momentum to get things done, and don’t be afraid to improvise.
- Recognise small successes. Take advantage of your progress to replenish your self-esteem.
- Keep the list up to date. Maybe updating your list once a day isn’t enough. Nothing invites inefficiency like an outdated set of priorities.
Do you use a list to organise your day? Please help us out and share one of your favorite tips here.
Reach out and touch someone
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Collaboration and Communication, Prosperity and Well Being on February 15th, 2009
Penelope Trunk wrote a great article this week entitled How to talk to a friend who’s been laid off. Her tips are, as usual, insightful and witty, but I think she missed an easy layup.
In many cases it’s not how you talk to a friend who’s been laid off, but that you talk to him. Out of sight out of mind and all that.
Keeping in touch with friends who are between jobs can benefit both parties. On multiple levels.
Sure, it can be awkward, and you’ll have to put aside that nagging feeling of “but for the grace of God” that nibbles at your guilt receptors. But in the end you’ll both feel better. And the person you reach out to won’t soon forget the kindness.
Are we raising our children to be prosperous?
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Prosperity and Well Being on February 9th, 2009
For fun, I just did an image search for the term prosperity. 80% of the pictures that were returned depicted cash, gold or other symbols of wealth. But, as I noted before, wealth is only one dimension of overall well-being.
There is a ton of advice out there for teaching children the value of money. How do we teach our children how to value the importance of being happy and productive?
It starts by fostering creativity. And I fear that in many cases we may be short-changing our youth in in that regard through the quest for competitive advantage in academia.
An education system that focuses on results rather than process, as might develop in an environment where standardised testing is the primary measure of success, for example, can overlook the fundamental skills of critical thinking and analysis in favor of repetition and memorisation. While the short term effect might be adequate scores for the institution, long term we may unintentionally teach the children to focus on arbitrary goals at the expense of original thought.
Aileen Journey muses about this in a recent guest article on the Slow Leadership site.
In content-based, traditional education, the use to be made of the information is not as important as the fact that it gets into the child’s head and stays in long enough to take a test or write a paper. Process is learning how to think, how to approach an issue, how to analyze a problem and come up with a solution. Given the way the world works today, the process of being able to find information is likely to be more important than having that information already sitting in your head. That’s as true of management learning as it is of grade-school classes.
That’s certainly relevant, but I don’t think it goes deep enough. Traditional content-based education doesn’t stimulate enough introspection either. Children are taught by syllabus, by outline, by deadline and test. In the rush to get to the result, a passing grade, they aren’t given enough time to evaluate the context of the quest.
Don’t get me wrong; there is a definite need to teach basic skills. But successful education should go beyond that to teach reasoning, contextual awareness and, increasingly, collaborative methodology.
Leading a productive and satisfying life requires maintaining a delicate balance between insistent forces. If you are taught, however unintentionally, that success means the tireless pursuit of an unquestioned goal, or individual performance, then the critical skills necessary to maintain that balance in life might never properly develop.
Educators have a difficult challenge. Developing curriculum that encourages not only process development but introspection and creativity is only part of the problem. Coming up with ways to validate the process and demonstrate its value in a way that satisfies the government, taxpayers and parents is even more challenging.
Another vote for global prosperity
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Prosperity and Well Being on February 4th, 2009
In line with an earlier observation here, Stewart Wallis of the New Economics Foundation got the attention of the financiers and government officials gathered in Davos for the World Economic Forum when he talked about the need to shift our priorities away from traditional measures of economic well being. According to an article by Reuters, Wallis believes “the macro-economic text-books are works of fiction”.
(Wallis) addressed the assembled money-makers on the importance of “gross domestic happiness”, as opposed to gross domestic product. His new economics aspire to demonstrate “real economic well-being” through sustainable living, a focus on the local, not the global, and a more equal distribution of wealth.
The explosive growth of global personal communication fosters a new, more holistic, perspective on life’s ultimate potential and allows people unprecedented visibility and access to the information necessary to integrate personal, social and business desires.
While this may initially be perceived by some as a rant against greed, in reality it is a measured argument for the world to aspire to the promise of universal achievement.
Bravo, sir.
Live Long and Prosper
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Prosperity and Well Being on February 3rd, 2009
When I was a youngster I tried for weeks to make the cool hand gesture that Spock flashes with this iconic blessing, but I never paused to contemplate the depth of its meaning.
I was musing about the true meaning of prosperity recently. What does prosperity mean to you? Is it about money? Possessions? Power? I think that for too long prosperity’s meaning has been eclipsed by cultural bias towards wealth and profitability. True prosperity includes other issues related to quality of life.
The Legatum Institute offers a Personal Prosperiscope tool that uses a brief survey and draws on years of academic research to help you quantify your personal prosperity and compare it with others. Using this tool might help you expand your perceptions and adjust your personal goals in the pursuit of happiness.
Our personal satisfaction is linked to our relationships and priorities at home, at work and with society. One of the great things about social networking technology is its ability to weave the threads of these relationships into a more beautiful fabric.
Nurse Barb Dehn talks about life balance in her recent blog and wonders if it is just an illusion. Interesting question, and I think it all depends on your perspective.
Why Easy Street isn’t
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Prosperity and Well Being on February 2nd, 2009
I love the elegance and impact of simple informational graphics.
I was looking for a way to illustrate that seeking prosperity will require not just desire but effort when Jessica Hagy nailed it for me. Props!

Online participation as an indicator of prosperity
Posted by Roger Farnsworth in Collaboration and Communication, Prosperity and Well Being on March 7th, 2009
What do you think?
Research indicates that people who comment on blogs and actively participate in online communities are more likely to be self-confident, well-adjusted and intelligent and have a more satisfying life than people who don’t.
Those who regularly read and comment on blogs are 10 times more likely to be successful in business, drive nice cars and have a fulfilling family life than “lurkers” who don’t.
Ok, I admit it; I made that up. But it makes sense, doesn’t it? Generally, people who are open and participative tend to become more involved in social activities that increase their sense of connectedness, and that community involvement in turn stimulates their personal development.
I’ve found that doing is a lot more satisfying than observing in almost every facet of life.
What do you think?
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